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• Dear Dad…November 8, 2021
  I am on the brink of discovering you. I now now an address for somewhere where you may have lived. I could be barking up the wrong tree or I could be too late. Maybe you have passed by now… Your date of birth was December 1946 if the information given to me by myContinue reading “Dear Dad…”
• No worries!August 12, 2021
  I have a philosophy of the very simple aforementioned phrase. Basically, a lot of people worry about possible scenarios happening to them. Most of which never even materialise. So my motto is “why worry about something which is beyond your control?” I am constantly surrounded by anxiety , as previously mentioned in my blog ofContinue reading “No worries!”
• RSPHAugust 9, 2021
  Today has been a particularly stressful day in the Royal Society of Paranoid Husbands. I have had to deal with a number of incidents of paranoia from my husband. Dealing with paranoia as a carer is very difficult. Patience is wearing thin. I am not a professional, so my tact in dealing with situations isContinue reading “RSPH”
• Love of your lifeAugust 5, 2021
  I hear this phrase all the time; people referring to their partners. What elements are necessary to be classed as the love of someone else’s life? Is it someone that you agree with all the time and hang on to their every word? Is it someone that you have to go everywhere with and haveContinue reading “Love of your life”
• What’s your identity?July 26, 2021
  Most of the time, people associate their identity with who has brought them up. Although this to me is important, one of the things which I feel make me myself is the fact that I was adopted at an early age. I suppose it then brings up the idea of nature v nurture. Am IContinue reading “What’s your identity?”
• A sense of belongingJuly 23, 2021
  It’s funny how people have the need to feel part of something. It’s a human need to belong. When I found out I was adopted, thankfully, I was already part of a loving family and felt like I belonged to that. I know that not everyone’s experiences of it would be the same as mine.Continue reading “A sense of belonging”
• Mental health mattersJuly 23, 2021
  As I mentioned previously in my bio, I have a husband who suffers from anxiety and depression. When I first met him, he appeared to be a very happy person and was very sociable, thriving on conversation and interaction with large numbers of people. However, it didn’t take long for his anxiety to show, mainlyContinue reading “Mental health matters”
• About me…July 22, 2021
  When you saw this post, you probably wondered why there was a picture of a cherry bakewell that looked, well, let’s say, imperfect. Why did I not choose a cake that looked immaculate? No one is perfect. Its about time that people stopped looking for it and began to accept each other with the scarsContinue reading “About me…”